The Cripocalypse (Trigger Warning)

I just woke up, two hours earlier than normal and I have had a vision. A vision of what the privileged folk who refuse to see me as human might see. In truth I was thinking about my father, and how he died. I then realized he suffered for over a year with a bad heart, which means I really need to be careful and have mine checked. I will. My doctor,w hen I tell her how he died will step right up and lob referrals out into space if necessary. My father was one of the most evil persons I ever met. His level of hatred wasn’t just his children or wife, but every man, woman, and child of color, or who was independent, but especially those that over lapped. He told me often about how disabilities worked. None of it was true, and thankfully I discarded his notions before my own disabilities began to force their way to discovery.

The Cripocalypse:
It begins with one, one gimp who refuses to walk. They are just lazy you see but laziness catches like disease. Soon his children refuse to walk. Then they begin to use wheelchairs. Sure some folk might actually need them, like the veterans who let the enemy blow off their legs. After that, come the walkers, they will walk but not if they can’t lean on something. Can these people be more lazy? Not only are they lazy but all of the cripples are mexican or black. You don’t see many white cripples, and if you do they had sex with a (insert racial expletive) cripple and caught it. That’s right, wheelchairs are contagious. Someday, every man will be in a wheelchair, unable to move his body because we didn’t kill the damned cripples.

Yes, he was a bastard. I once made friends with a girl in his apartment, after he and my mother split but before the divorce. He lived there a year before he decided to see who I was playing with when I should have been cleaning and making his dinner. I was only five, but, I was a woman and therefore I was to stay in the house like his personal slave. This girl, I think her name was Jasmin, to me was absolutely wonderful. We played with her dolls, her parents did not approve of Barbie and her stereotypes. In fact her father was the person who defined that word for me. I thought it meant something as innocent as having a newer stereo and an older one.

They even fed me most of the time, for when it was Visitation Time my father made sure to either not show up, or to use my body as he wished, then discard me like trash for the rest of the time. Jasmin didn’t mind that I was afraid of her father at first, she thought it was funny until he explained it was sad. These people were the most accepting people I had ever met. The only truely accepting people. Jasmin and I were playing in the stairwell one day when he woke up, dkscovered I had made pancakes that had gone cold and were slightly burned, and came out to punish me for being five and not being able to cook the food he liked.

I will not describe his physical assault, but I was not his only victim. This was the first time I ran from him. I ran to protect my friend, as he screamed racial slurs. You see Jasmin is black. I have no idea where she is now, that was the last time I saw her, due to my father’s violence against her family. I thought she was beautiful, and I wished my skin was dark. I am as pale as she was dark. She had the darkest skin I have ever seen, it was also luminescent, like looking at a person made of obsidian. She gave me my very first hug. That was how we met.

I was crying in the stairwell, and she and her father came home. She came up and just hugged me. Then we went to play. I do miss the innocence of youth. There was still innocence you see. There were stolen moments of absolute joy, before my father found out. When he attacked me and my friend, we escaped him. I knew I had to go back but I was willing to die for my friend. Her father wasn’t home, we were both alone but we dove through that apartment door, they were our neighbors, closed it, locked it and listened to him scream about how I was going to become a black woman.

Jasmin was also the first person to show concern over bruises. Despite my conditions I do not bruise easily, I never have. My father had also had enough other children to manage beating on us without bruising as much, and rarely where someone might see. He was calculating in his abuse, to make it harder for us to tell anyone. The worst abusers are the most talented at that. The last time I saw Jasmin, I was so afraid that my father would kill me. I even told her father that. I wish I had been smart enough to take his offer up. He offered to let me stay with him until my mother came.

We did try to call her, but, she was busy. My older siblings had refused to stay with Steve, my biological father’s first name, and I was alone except my friend. The police did come, yet they ignored the fact that even his daughter was telling them he’d tried to hurt her friend. This was a defining moment in my perceptions, when the police told Jasmin and her father, to send me back. They stated the Department of Child Services would be out to inspect his care of Jasmin, but surely my father was not really hurting me. They targeted them because of their color.

Often that is the day when I see my innocence starting to disappear. I had so little chance to be a child, but with great joy I remember every moment I had with Jasmin. I remember the utter innocence to be had, before I was taught to hate. It never took. Maybe it is living in New Mexico, where the Latin@ presence is so prevelant, maybe it is the fact that Jasmin and her father cared, or perhaps it is the effort I have put into bettering myself, rejecting the lessons of a false father.

The Cripocalypse is false. I know my disabilities are contagious via genetics. If I could have one last moment to look him in the eye again, I know what I would say. “Steve, I do not respect you. How can I respect someone so close minded as to abuse their children for existing? How can I want you to live, I really was hoping you would die sooner to better the world. You hurt me, and I know you will never care. You just feared being alone when you died, you feared it and none of your children will care when it happens. I am a cripple, who likes persons of color, who likes anyone she meets until they prove they are not worthy of it. You taught me horrible things, to steal, to lie, and to beat. I reject you en masse.”

He is not the only bigot who fears the Cripocalypse. So often people try to hide the disabled, the Persons of color, and yet, isn’t color the most important part of a painting? Art screams for diversity, and the privileged persons always claim to love it. I too wonder, how many more people who hate have died, or will die in a state they most fear?

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6 Comments

  1. This is incredibly sad. Surely, people who are that bigoted have some kind of mental imbalance.

  2. I am not sure this is true. Remember, children have to be taught to hate. I do know my Grandmother was a big proponent of racism. She loved segregation, partly because it was considered normal in her generation. She also hated out of a fear of being hated. She refused to ever meet me because she hated her own family too.

    It may seem a mental imbalance but it is more a learned behavior. The prolonged ignorance of many is sad but is also a personal choice that takes a great amount of effort.

  3. The ‘Cripocalypse’ description reminds me of one of the worldviews of one of my parents, who I consider to have a mental problem. This person was also abusive, although not to the extent of your ‘father’. However, this person would never see a psychologist, because this person believes that my other parent and I are the ones who are crazy.

    It’s not just hateful, but also completely divorced from reality.

  4. I would never compare our abuses. That can undermine your own experience, which should never be done. It is valid and real. The Cripocalypse is a fear thousands have. With disability an unfathomable experience for the able bodied, and the fear that a seemingly small injury can make you one of the cripples, it is also a fear that is shared by thousands.

    I do agree that mental health is an issue in the acceptance of such theories but it is also as you said taught to children. Many humans divorce themselves from reality, as you so eloquently put it, because of fear.

    This is not meant to excuse their behavior, but to offer understanding about why so many fear the Cripocalypse.

  5. I’m sorry. I re-read my comments now, and they sound quite ableist; they imply that a mental imbalance explains bigotry. The problem is not “mental imbalance”, but a mechanism that allows the bigot to spin explanations that are completely divorced from reality. “Mental imbalance” is used casually as a shorthand for “delusional” or being unable to track reality, but they are two different things, sometimes overlapping, and sometimes not. Surely, the popularity in the U.S. of the false belief that Saddam Hussein was responsible for 9/11 is not explained by “mental imbalance”.

  6. We are all learning together. I still find myself running into my own ableist walls, pretty often actually. It takes effort, as ableism isn’t something that is widely acknowledged so it is harder to root out. Thank you for catching yourself, and, I believe that (this may upset someone) no one is free of any delusion, mental imbalance, or even mental illness. We’re not perfect, so we are all flawed.

    Some imbalances are merely socially acceptable and do not inhibit the ability for others to survive.


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